Monday at around 4pm, I started dinner and realized I didn’t want to rush, so I texted my ex mother in law and asked if she would mind bringing my son home after he was done visiting with her for the weekend. Despite my ex-husband being in jail and only allowed supervised visits thanks to a couple counts of domestic violence against me and three DUIs in three years, I still encouraged our son time with his family. I saw the devastation that my parent’s divorce left in its wake. My mom took me to my sister’s daycare at twelve years old and we sat in the parking lot and she asked me in a too calm voice if she should file divorce to, “Give my dad a wake-up call.”
“No, mom- you shouldn’t because you’re adult and we don’t use the courts for childish games.”
Is what I should have said. Continue reading